Niether Is Not a Role Model

Charles Barkley had it right.
I have little doubt that Bruce Jenner makes no claim to being a role model, he would probably be very happy if he could just do his thing and disappear in the process.
I also have little doubt that Chris Kyle did not seek the limelight. He likely understood that it would put his family in danger. More so, he would claim that he was doing his duty, his duty was difficult, and his achievement something that gave him personal pride. Many veterans are friends of mine, while some may express pride in their service branch or unit, none, absolutely none, brag about what duties they performed.
NYT: Bruce Jenner a 'Role Model,' Chris Kyle 'Insane' | Truth Revolt
I will suggest that role models never really are anointed by the press, they are who the people choose. Some are chosen because people love sports and there is a lot of image fluffing in that business. They are chosen because of religion. They are chosen because parents focus positive attention on whomever.
The best role models are the ones people chose by their own human interaction. They are often friends, teachers, coaches and relatives.  That comes from respect and love, not some foolish writer for the New York Times.
Neither article should have ever been written.
My role model was a boss that I worked with for over 25 years.
It should be who you know in depth, otherwise it is superficial.